5 of our favourite funny podcasts to get you through this weird weather weekend
5 of our favourite funny podcasts to get you through this weird weather weekend

Lauren Heskin

If we’re talking about blood clots, we should be talking about the Contraceptive Pill
If we’re talking about blood clots, we should be talking about the Contraceptive Pill

Jennifer McShane

This idyllic Georgian home in Kilkenny with artist’s studio and stone cottage is on the market for €1.3 million
This idyllic Georgian home in Kilkenny with artist’s studio and stone cottage is on the...

Megan Burns

5 signs your relationship has run its course, according to experts
5 signs your relationship has run its course, according to experts

IMAGE

Khloe Kardashian picture: It’s time to take a step back and see how warped this has all become
Khloe Kardashian picture: It’s time to take a step back and see how warped this...

Amanda Cassidy

Operation Forth Bridge: What’s expected following Prince Philip’s death
Operation Forth Bridge: What’s expected following Prince Philip’s death

Jennifer McShane

The menopause is the toughest challenge your skin will ever face: Here are products that will help
The menopause is the toughest challenge your skin will ever face: Here are products that...

Helen Seymour

Image / Self / Real-life Stories

My ravenous consumption of ‘What I Eat in a Day’ videos was fuelled by disordered eating


by IMAGE
15th Jan 2021
blank

At the height of her disordered eating, writer Caitlin Meredith was obsessed with a particular YouTube phenomenon where models and influencers documented ‘What I Eat in a Day’. Now she realises why she felt so compelled to watch


I used to be totally obsessed by a regular feature in women’s magazines where a nutritionist would rate a celeb’s fridge out of ten. Flicking through the pages, I’d be enthralled by a sneak peek into the day-to-day diet of a former Big Brother contestant or a model-turned-actress. They’d be packed full of greens and salmon fillets and alternative kinds of milk, but would inevitably always be rated a lowly seven, thanks to a lone Muller Crunch Corner yoghurt lingering behind the broccoli. I loved that feature, much like I do anything that reveals the minutiae of life.

Luckily for me, and anyone just as nosey, in the age of constant connection and hashtag authenticity, there is a deluge of spending diaries, tours around bathroom cabinets and Instagram-storied skincare routines. And while I greedily gobble up most of it, there’s just one type that I don’t let myself indulge in: The What I Eat in A Day video.

 

Daily diets and cheery music

I’m sure you’re familiar with the format. A blogger, most often a woman, documents every morsel that passes their lips, usually backed by some cheerful music and a few frames of them going about their day. A couple of years ago, this was the type of content I craved.

I trawled the Internet for perfectly edited videos of bloggers’ daily diets or squealed with glee when someone I followed posted a food diary. If the supply is equal to the demand, I can’t have been the only one watching and reading about what the women of the web ate every day — a quick YouTube search will bring up an incredible 130,000,000 results.

I wonder why collectively we’re so hungry for this type of content. Perhaps it’s just innocent intrigue; perhaps we’re seeking out recipe ideas or meal prepping tips.

Maybe it’s even expected of us — we document our every move online so much already that updates on what everyone is eating are just an extension of that.

Facebook, Instagram and Twitter all let me know when my friends have gone for a flat white; when they’ve voted in an election; when they’ve bought a new pair of dungarees in the sales — so it’s only natural that our curiosity now stretches to what people keep in their freezer or what they sprinkle atop their muesli.

It’s nothing. It’s harmless.

And whilst many may be able to watch these videos and then step away unscathed, my ravenous consumption of the What I Eat in a Day video was fuelled by something much more sinister.

 

My own brand of diet advice

When I was at the worst point in my disordered eating, I realise now that every time I clicked on a What I Eat in a Day, it was to seek out my own brand of diet advice. The women I watched did not purport to have any credentials when it came to nutrition, but I took anything they said about food as gospel.

Whether it was keto, paleo, Weight Watchers or Slimming World, I weighed up my own diet against theirs: I berated myself for having portions larger than theirs, for eating more carbs than they did, for feeling hungry between lunch and dinner when they were able to blaze on through.

It depends, of course, on what type of video you watch. Recently, there seems to have been an equal and opposite reaction to the kind of videos I was watching with the genesis of the Realistic What I Eat in a Day video — implying, of course, that the diets documented online tend to be extremely unlike what many of us are actually eating.

But, at the time, I didn’t want to see a realistic diet.

In my disordered mind, the only videos I wanted to see were those that implied that if I ate that way, I could be thin.

I wanted to see what other women were eating purely and simply because they were thin. I could not eat what these women said were ‘treats’ or ‘naughty’ or ‘bad’ because they were thin. I needed to exercise in the same way, at the same times, with the same frequency as these women, because they were thin.

 

An authentic day’s diet

As I trawled through the videos of women extolling the virtues of eating low carb or vegan or just extremely little food (maybe with a solitary ‘cheeky’ biscuit thrown in regretfully at the end), I sunk further and further into my disorder and the quest to eat like thin women. After all, they were women just like me, weren’t they? That, as the authentic influencer was their USP.

The fridge feature in women’s magazines featured only celebrities; their lifestyles so unlike mine and their diets therefore equally unattainable. You knew their weekly shop had likely been primed and prepped by a food stylist (there’s no way anyone’s fridge is that clean and organised).

They had chefs or a nutritionist or at least the financial freedom to always shop at M&S.

But the virtue of the What I Eat in a Day video is what, for me, also led to their potential danger. The videos are posted by people we follow, people we admire, people we’re interested in, and above all, people we can relate to. As the allure of many influencers are that they’re ‘just like us’, the divide between ‘us’ and ‘them’ is blurred and so it became a whole lot easier to use their diets as a yardstick to measure my own and berate myself accordingly.

 

Why are we so curious?

Of course, I don’t for a second suspect that the motivation behind these types of posts is to incite jealousy or insecurity in viewers, and I hope that the women posting this content have genuinely healthy relationships with food and their bodies. But considering my own motivations for watching, I do think viewers could hold them up as aspirational: we need only look at the type of women who tend to post the WIEIAD video — they tend to be white, conventionally attractive, and most importantly, thin. I wonder what the success of posts from people who fall outside of these narrow binaries would be — would we still be so curious in what they’re eating?

I don’t think there’s a way to fully escape the societal fear that currently exists around food and the diet culture that seeps into everything we do, but for me, the safest bet is to ban myself from consuming anything that could skew my perspective on what’s right for me and my body — the What I Eat In A Day video being top of the list. Even though I’m at the point in my life now where I feel very secure in my relationship with food, when it comes to seeing what other women are eating, I’m happy not to share.

Featured image: Cristiano Pinto on Unsplash


Read more: How losing my period for two years made me appreciate it more than ever

Read more: Comment: Our obsession with being thin hasn’t gone away. It’s just hiding in plain sight

Read more: ‘I became a shadow of my former self. I stopped eating. I couldn’t go to work’

Also Read

blank
ADVICE, REAL-LIFE STORIES, PARENTHOOD
How to talk to your boss and partner about juggling work, childcare and home duties

More and more women are bearing the weight of the “Covid-load”, juggling increasing work pressures with childcare and home duties, writes NIKKI WALSH. She finds out what sort of conversations we need to be having with our bosses, our partners and, most importantly, ourselves.

By IMAGE

Monica Lewinsky
RELATIONSHIPS
Monica Lewinsky will soon get to talk of scandal on her terms

It was on this day, January 17th, 1998, when news...

By Jennifer McShane

blank
PARENTHOOD
Working parents without access to childcare are eligible for PUP

Working parents that don’t have access to childcare can apply...

By Shayna Sappington

woman finds apartment behind mirror
REAL-LIFE STORIES
A New York woman finds a derelict apartment behind her bathroom mirror

By Lauren Heskin

stop cravings
HEALTH & WELLNESS
Why we have cravings and how to prevent them

By Lauren Heskin

blank
HEALTH & WELLNESS
7 common misconceptions about your teeth (from a Dental Hygienist)

By Jennifer McShane

dreams meanings
ADVICE
We asked a dream expert about 6 common dreams and their meanings

By Grace McGettigan

How to reduce your child’s risk of asthma, eczema and allergies
premium HEALTH & WELLNESS, PARENTHOOD
How to significantly reduce your child’s risk of asthma, eczema and allergies

50% all babies born today will develop allergies, and up to a third will become asthmatic or suffer from eczema. So how can you reduce your baby’s risk of developing these conditions?

By Michelle Henning