Does Ireland’s first ‘influencing’ degree signpost big changes for the working world?
Does Ireland’s first ‘influencing’ degree signpost big changes for the working world?

Sarah Finnan

This bright and modern family home is on the market for €285,000
This bright and modern family home is on the market for €285,000

Sarah Finnan

Ask the Doctor: ‘Are the symptoms of a heart attack in women different to those in men?’
Ask the Doctor: ‘Are the symptoms of a heart attack in women different to those...

Sarah Gill

Supper Club: Mixed veg dhal with cauliflower & spinach pakora
Supper Club: Mixed veg dhal with cauliflower & spinach pakora

Meg Walker

‘Such a big smile for such a little man’: A story of remarkable support during a difficult time
‘Such a big smile for such a little man’: A story of remarkable support during...

Amanda Cassidy

This cosy seaside home in Wicklow is on the market for €675,000
This cosy seaside home in Wicklow is on the market for €675,000

Sarah Finnan

A modest extension has created a feeling of light and spaciousness in this Balbriggan semi-d
A modest extension has created a feeling of light and spaciousness in this Balbriggan semi-d

Megan Burns

Childcare strike: ‘As a mother, I fully support the childcare workers strike’
Childcare strike: ‘As a mother, I fully support the childcare workers strike’

Dominique McMullan

Industry Insiders: ‘Our work as early childhood educators is not truly recognised’
Industry Insiders: ‘Our work as early childhood educators is not truly recognised’

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Clair Dowling of Tiller + Grain on her life in food
Clair Dowling of Tiller + Grain on her life in food

Sarah Gill

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Social media and motherhood: ‘Depending on the internet rabbit hole, I am not earth mother enough, not city-cool-mother enough. Not mama enough. Not enough.’


by Mairead Heffron
12th Nov 2021

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Comparison is the thief of joy, particularly when it comes to the momfluencers that splash across our feeds. But despite knowing how performative they are, why do we continue to punish ourselves?

I’m in bed at 11pm, wide awake, immersed in the Insta-life of a former ballerina-turned- rancher who pirouettes, smiling, through her life as a mom to six children on their farm in Utah. I was sucked in by a reel of Hannah and her stetson-wearing husband dancing in the middle of a country road against a mountainous backdrop and now I’m wondering why I’m not as happy as they appear to be with the rustic...

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