This architect-designed West Cork home has a spectacular view of Schull Harbour
This architect-designed West Cork home has a spectacular view of Schull Harbour

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Dear Daniella Moyles: ‘I want to stop being vegan – how do I untangle food choices from identity?’
Dear Daniella Moyles: ‘I want to stop being vegan – how do I untangle food...

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The silence of the system: a new campaign calls for reform of Ireland’s family courts
The silence of the system: a new campaign calls for reform of Ireland’s family courts

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Inside Soho House and Manchester’s Finest’s intimate dinner with Solstice by Kenny Atkinson in Note,...

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Irish chef, restaurateur and broadcaster Anna Haugh shares her life in food
Irish chef, restaurateur and broadcaster Anna Haugh shares her life in food

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The award-winning Irish cocktail bar shaking things up on an international level
The award-winning Irish cocktail bar shaking things up on an international level

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Team IMAGE on the morning habits they never skip
Team IMAGE on the morning habits they never skip

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WIN the entire No7 Prime Forever skin preservation range
WIN the entire No7 Prime Forever skin preservation range

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The Irish-led films that premiered at Cannes Film Festival

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Meet the winners of the IMAGE PwC Businesswoman of the Year Awards 2026
Meet the winners of the IMAGE PwC Businesswoman of the Year Awards 2026

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‘There’s a large lie floating around that all women are built with this innate longing to mother’


by Amanda Cassidy
16th Mar 2023

Not everyone wants to be a mother. But what happens when you feel as if you made the wrong call completely?

Not wanting your child is considered cold-hearted and selfish, a far cry from the nurturing image mothers have always portrayed. But whether it is accepted or not, there are many women who have felt remorse about becoming a mother and they are keen to point out why. “My daughter is my entire world,” explains one woman on the popular discussion site, Reddit. “And I love her with everything that I am but yes, I still have...

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