What you think parenting is like versus what it is actually like
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It may appear tiny from the front, but this Ballsbridge cottage on the market for €750,000 is surprisingly spacious
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Does disordered eating fuel our consumption of ‘What I Eat in a Day’ videos?
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Irish designer Jonathan Anderson named among TIME’s people of the year
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Do you know what the pill is actually doing to your body?
Do you know what the pill is actually doing to your body?

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This Clontarf home has been transformed with a spacious extension full of delicately dappled light
This Clontarf home has been transformed with a spacious extension full of delicately dappled light

Megan Burns

New life has been breathed into this Victorian Portobello home thanks to a revamp that’s full of personality
New life has been breathed into this Victorian Portobello home thanks to a revamp that’s...

Megan Burns

Supper Club: Grilled Caesar salad with chickpea croutons
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Outdoor table and chairs sets to order now for summer
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‘Happiness is not something that happens to you. It’s something you have to choose, everyday’


by IMAGE
25th Jan 2023

It's serious stuff, this happiness lark. It requires strength and bravery. So remind yourself that happiness isn't something that happens to you, it's something you initiate, writes Emer O'Reilly-Hyland 

I was reading an article about Oprah’s book, The Path Made Clear, in which she argues that having purpose is the key to happiness. Nothing to argue with there, I thought, from the Queen of Self-Help. My eye moved to the sidebar – Oprah’s celebrity pals were giving their purpose in life with a lot of wordy self-help speak: “honouring your own life” (Elizabeth Gilbert), and a particularly rambling, “if you’re full of love, if...

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