IMAGE staff pick their top beauty and skincare Christmas gifts
IMAGE staff pick their top beauty and skincare Christmas gifts

Megan Burns

“Once I found a community of women who empowered each other through strength, I realised how cool it is to be strong and capable”
“Once I found a community of women who empowered each other through strength, I realised...

Megan Burns

Real Weddings: Sade and John’s wedding at a charming estate in Co Meath
Real Weddings: Sade and John’s wedding at a charming estate in Co Meath

Shayna Sappington

Fine wine: How our favourite tipples are influencing our outfit choices
Fine wine: How our favourite tipples are influencing our outfit choices

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My Life in Culture: Actor Lauren Larkin
My Life in Culture: Actor Lauren Larkin

Sarah Finnan

How to spend 48 hours in Kenmare
How to spend 48 hours in Kenmare

Lizzie Gore-Grimes

The Irish cleaned up at this year’s British Fashion Awards
The Irish cleaned up at this year’s British Fashion Awards

Sarah Gill

The IMAGE team’s party season make-up favourites
The IMAGE team’s party season make-up favourites

Holly O'Neill

‘Surrounding yourself with positive people makes the day job so much more fun’
‘Surrounding yourself with positive people makes the day job so much more fun’

Sarah Finnan

Take a tour of this Cobh cottage currently on sale for €450,000
Take a tour of this Cobh cottage currently on sale for €450,000

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Ask Annie: ‘I feel fed up and exhausted trying to keep everyone happy’


by Annie Lavin
10th Feb 2023

What would it be like to stop and turn the focus of attention inwards and ask yourself what you need right now, in this moment? In this installment of our Agony Aunt series, relationship coach Annie Lavin tackles people pleasing.

Dear Annie, I feel fed up and exhausted trying to keep everyone happy. I do it at work, with my friends and my family. I do this so much I’m not sure I even know who I am anymore. I’d love to change this behaviour but I don’t know where to start. Lately, I’ve found myself becoming the family counsellor and I don’t want this role but I’m in it. Everyone comes to me and...

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