5 childhood books you should revisit as an adult (or thumb through with the kids)

First, it’s all fun and games when you catch all the colourful drug references that went over your childish head. But Lewis Carroll’s classic is also a fantastic escape for when you need a break from everyday life, and its undercurrents are quite dark; the Red Queen is driven demented in her pursuit of power and Alice is unsure of her place in the world. Who is Alice? What will become of her? These are questions she seeks to find answers to as she ventures through Wonderland, meeting its colourful inhabitants. As an adult, we can all empathise with such uncertainty, and you’re never too old to appreciate the mad hatter and his love of tea parties.

Peter Pan by J. M. Barrie

It seemed a grand adventure, watching the Darling Children fly to Neverland to battle sharks, Hook and swim with mermaids. What a joy it was to think we might stay young forever, perhaps immune from growing up as Peter Pan so desired. Our culture is obsessed with this premise now and grasps to hold onto youth. I reread this classic by chance last month and found it profoundly sad. Yes, Pan gains a lot by remaining a boy but misses out on a great deal. At times, the idea is both sinister and frightening, that of a child prevented from growing up. Childhood has its own fears, but despite this, the child in all of us was Pan at one point in our lives.

The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett

As an impressionable child, I found myself irritated by the heroine Mary Lennox; she was moany and obnoxious. Upon rereading it with an older pair of eyes, her world appeared different from the one I first encountered, yet her secret garden never lost any of its magic. When she is sent to live with her uncle after her parents die of cholera, she discovers her sickly cousin Colin, who is equally imperious. Both love no one because they have never been loved, and each has dealt with the trauma of grief and loss. The secret garden was kept hidden from them both initially to shield them from the cruelness of the world – this and so much more about the book should resonate with the adult reader.

The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams Bianco 

William Bianco’s 1922 tale is a masterpiece in self-acceptance. In the words of the Skin Horse: “By the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out, and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real, you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.”

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