Categories: LivingCulture

Meg Bergin is creating safe nightlife spaces for women in Dublin, and we love her for it


by Sarah Gill
04th Apr 2024

After a slew of incidents surrounding women’s safety in night club settings, Meg Bergin created The Girl’s Room and The Spotlight Sessions, bringing a special kind of much needed energy to the nightlife space for women and nonbinary people.

Back in January of 2022, after one too many incidents surrounding women’s safety in night club settings, Meg Bergin decided to stop hoping for improvement and set about creating it. Five months later, the inaugural Girl’s Room event was held, and a safe, open space for women and nonbinary people was born.

On top of that, last year, Meg also launched curated, a platform dedicated to connecting and celebrating Dublin’s creative scene. So, between booking spaces, vendors and DJs, and curating gigs, exhibitions and showcases, this is one multi-hyphenate Irish creative who, quite literally, works tirelessly to bring people together and shine that gorgeous golden spotlight on all of those around her.

To put it simply, Meg Bergin is someone who gets things done.

We caught up with the organiser extraordinaire to talk about carving out a successful niche, working in a male-dominated industry, and detaching yourself from external validation…

What is really beautiful about The Girl’s Room is how diverse it is, you see so many different people from all backgrounds and walks of life mingling and connecting. It’s a very healing and unifying environment

Everything is projection. There is no need to attach yourself to external praise, validation or lack thereof. People’s perception of you is a reflection of their internal world. Focus on being more of what you want to see in the world.

Would you say it’s a male-dominated industry? What’s your experience been like working in that space?

It is for sure heavily male-dominated. It’s funny though, I sort of exist within a little bubble where most of the people I work alongside are women or nonbinary because I made it my mission from the beginning to build a strong network from the start. I really wanted to create opportunities and prioritise working with people who are more often marginalised in the industry.

I have had male promoters contact me and ask how they can start a women-only club and if I can give them advice on how to get started. To which, I, of course, do not respond.

Simultaneously, however, I have received a lot of support from lads across the creative industry too and even formed some really lovely friendships. An interesting thing to note, at the last curated gig, the audience was majority guys AND it was an all-women lineup. They were not shy about cheering, singing, and bopping along, and even praising and chatting to the artists after the show -–showing genuine appreciation and love. As they should – but that really warmed my heart.

How do you ensure that it will be kept a safe space? Do you have a policy in place? Is this something that people might be able to go along to alone, in the hopes of meeting like-minded people?

In terms of safeguarding, there are a few things I have in place. Firstly, we have a zero-tolerance policy for any and all forms of harassment and discrimination. We also have optional consent bands for people who are open to meeting someone – be that platonically or romantically.

I set up a group chat the week of each event so people can arrange. In that chat, people can also plan their routes home. This is ideal for people coming solo or anyone looking to make some new pals. At each event, there will be a gang of people arriving together who have met at the pre-drinks and some friendships have been formed from it which is so lovely!

Focus on how your life feels. Less on how it looks to others. If you need to, clear out your Instagram following, spend more time within community meeting people who are relatable and real, spend more time exploring your interests – you create your world, don’t let anybody else determine it for you.

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Featured image via YEWTH MAGAZINE//REBECCA EWNETU & LUZDACOSTAPHOTO.

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