Stop asking SAHMs when we’re going back to work – we never stopped

As much as we try to deny it, your job and your identity are intertwined. One of the first questions you ask a stranger when you first meet is: ‘What do you do? And, by that, we mean: What do you get paid to do?  So, when you’re a mum and choose to stay at home and work in a position you don’t get paid for, except maybe in hugs, the tone of your answer...